Thought my dear friends would be able to understand social media a bit better if I created an image that we can all relate to. WINE!
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Below is a link to a story from our local TV station, KRON-4, about how parents should limit the amount of time kids spend online. Doctors from the American Academy of Pediatrics say that parents need to know that unrestricted media use can have serious consequences.
I remember our parents limiting the number of hours we could watch TV back in the 80s. These days though, it needs to be the hours of screen time for kids which includes TV, computer , video games, phones and any other online device.
Read the full story here:
Did you know there is an age restriction for email? Apparently there is. A child must be at least 13 years of age to have an email account. The Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) that was passed back in 1998, protects the privacy of children under the age of 13. It prohibits websites from collecting any personal information, including location, of the child. Since email accounts, Facebook and other social media sites collect data on each of their users, they are not allowed to sign on anyone under the age of 13.
Google/Gmail = 13 years old.
Yahoo email = 13 years old or can have a “family email account” that is linked to a parents email account.
Hotmail = 13 years old.
Skype = 13 years old.
Facebook = 13 years old.
Google+ = 13 years old.
Instagram = 13 years old.
LinkedIn = 18 years old.
This was news to me. It wasn’t until I was interviewed by a reporter for the New York Times that I found out there is an age restriction for Instagram. My son has had an Instagram account for over a year and he’s just now 13. Upon asking him, for the reporter who was writing the story, he told me he had lied about his age. What? MY son? The son of InstaMom? He did. True story.
It seems that the companies are serious about it too. Just recently, I had a friend ask me on Facebook about Google closing down her son’s Gmail account. He’s had it for two years and has several devices linked to it. Now they can’t access it due to Google deactivating the account. Did some searching around and it appears that this is a common occurrence. The age requirements on Google Accounts is explained here. There is even more information located here about Google Accounts and what to do if the accounts are shut down.
From Google’s support page:
What can I do to re-enable my Google Account?
You can re-enable your account by following our instructions to confirm that you are old enough to have a Google Account. You will see these instructions when you attempt to sign back in to your account through any Google sign-in page. If you are a Google Apps user, you should go to accounts.google.com in order to re-enable your account. We currently offer three ways to confirm your age:
Note: You may be charged an additional $1.00 USD for your transaction of $0.30 USD. This is simply a pre-authorization charge that will be erased from your account in a few days. If your transaction does not go through, check to see if you are using an invalid card or have provided incorrect information. Your transaction of $0.30 USD will be donated to a child protection organization.
If you are under 18, your parent or guardian will have to supply the confirmation on your behalf.
Most likely, these restrictions have been in place from the very beginning but they are starting to enforce them more due to a growing concern for children and the internet. Hope this helps!
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I read this great article on one of my favorite blogs, Cool Mom Tech. It’s step-by-step instructions on how to keep your child’s iPod Touch safe. It’s something all parents should do for young children and teens. My son has been using his iPod Touch for years and I had no idea it had this capability until I read their article. Even though my son is almost 14, I went in and changed his settings so that he couldn’t download any apps or content that are for 17+. I still have to check his iPod Touch often but knowing he can’t get to certain apps makes me feel a little bit better. I have some friends that go in and disable Facebook, YouTube, the internet and several other apps if their child gets bad grades or gets in trouble.
First of all, it’s up to you to keep in mind the age of your child and their maturity and sense of responsibility, in terms of what you allow and what you keep on lockdown. Hopefully this info will help you make the decisions that are best for you.
The iPod Touch comes complete with Safari and YouTube, as well as access to iTunes, the App Store, Facetime, and a camera. Now these are all awesome for us adults, but not so great for unfettered access by kids. Thankfully, you can set restrictions on pretty much everything on the device by doing the following:
If you are keeping the iTunes and Installing Apps tabs “on,” you’ll want to scroll down to “Allowed Content” and set iTunes and App Store limits.
I moved Music & Podcasts to “clean” and set Movies and TV-Shows to “G” and “TV-G” for my 8-year old. I also set Apps Rated to 4+, though you can turn that off completely if you don’t want your child to be able to search for apps. Imagine my surprise when my daughter searched for “girls apps” and ended up with…yeah. Not stuff for little girls.
Additionally, I turned off “in-app purchases” and required a password to be entered for any app purchase attempt. But of course, you should consider your children’s age, as well as how they’ll be using the device, to help in your decision as to what to turn off and how to limit the content they can view.